The Healed Lover
Book Two of The Healed Lover series
Loving from Sovereignty
A Man’s Guide to Love, Discernment, and Lasting Connection
Rey T. Singh
You did the work. You came home to yourself. Now — how do you love someone else without losing the ground you fought for?
Coming November 2026
About the book
Most books on dating teach tactics. This one starts somewhere deeper: the sovereign self you become before you partner, and how to bring that whole self into love without abandoning it. Rey T. Singh — Registered Social Worker and psychotherapist — draws on more than 25,000 hours of clinical practice to offer a grounded, honest, and practical guide to dating, discernment, and lasting connection for the man ready to love from his own centre and stand fully in himself, with his healing and his purpose leading the way.
Inside, you will learn to:
- Read the difference between real connection and the familiar pull of an old wound.
- Navigate modern dating — apps, early signals, timing — with somatic awareness and clear discernment.
- Recognize the archetypes and red flags before they cost you years.
- Understand how love actually grows through its stages, instead of forcing it.
- Love bigger than you planned — blended families, culture, and meeting the people who come with her.
- Practise sovereign presence: fully with the one you love, and still fully your own.
Loving from Sovereignty is not about being chosen. It is about choosing well — from wholeness, not from hunger.
Praise
“Rey T. Singh has created an integrative guide to healing and relationships that thoughtfully incorporates Polyvagal Theory within a broader trauma-informed and relational framework. His compassionate approach offers readers practical tools for cultivating self-awareness, resilience, and authentic connection.”
“Too many men, in our communities and far beyond, carry wounds handed down through generations, and no one ever showed them how to set those wounds down. These books meet them with honesty and compassion, and show them a good road home: to themselves, to Spirit, and to the people they love.”
“Authentic healing begins when you allow yourself to be vulnerable emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. If healing were easy, everyone would do it. When healing, do your 50%, and Creator will help with the other 50%. These books show you how to do your 50%.”
“A thoughtful, compassionate, and deeply reflective exploration of relationships, healing, and personal growth that transcends gender.”
Where to get it
Loving from Sovereignty arrives in November 2026. Links to each edition will appear here as they become available.
- PaperbackLink coming soon
- EbookLink coming soon
- AudiobookLink coming soon
Book details
- Title
- Loving from Sovereignty: A Man’s Guide to Love, Discernment, and Lasting Connection
- Series
- The Healed Lover, Book Two
- Author
- Rey T. Singh, MSW, RSW, RCS, C.Hyp.
- ISBN (paperback)
- 978-1-0680125-1-8
- Editions
- Paperback, ebook and audiobook
- Publisher
- Independently published, London, Ontario, Canada
- Release
- November 2026
Start with Book One
The Healed Lover: Tools for Reclaiming the Sovereign Self
What if the love you have been searching for begins with the man in the mirror?
Explore Book One